7 Ways of Thinking to Become a More Culturally Intelligent Person
Discover 7 transformative ways to enhance your cultural awareness and thrive in diverse environments.
Hey hey, empowered explorer!
I just finished reading one of my favorite Bible passages, Philippians 4:6-9, and it’s the kind of reminder that keeps me grounded.
As I reflected on its words, I noticed how much they also resonate with the work of cultural intelligence—the idea of training our minds to focus on what is true, noble, right, pure, lovely, admirable, excellent, and praiseworthy, especially as we engage with other cultures and perspectives.
In both our spiritual and cultural journeys, what we choose to focus on has the power to shape not only our personal outlook but also how we connect, empathize, and respect others across diverse backgrounds.
Just as positivity can transform our lives, the following seven practices can deepen our understanding and broaden our perspectives as we navigate our globalized world with grace, respect, and confidence.
When it comes to cultural intelligence, how we think is important.
It’s one thing to understand cultural differences and another to appreciate, respect, and navigate them with genuine insight. Inspired by a past talk I gave on building a more positive mindset, here are seven ways of thinking that will help you grow in CQ and engage with the world around you with more understanding and openness.
1. Think About What is True in Every Culture
In every culture, there are aspects that are both uniquely distinct and universally relatable. When we approach cultural exploration with a mindset focused on discovering these truths, we create space for authentic connections. Thinking about what is true means recognizing cultural values and customs as they are, without projecting our own biases. This mindset encourages us to see each culture in its own light, forming a solid foundation for mutual respect and understanding.
Try this: When engaging with someone from a different culture, ask open-ended questions to understand the meaning behind their customs or beliefs. You might be surprised at the commonalities you find when you dig deep into these truths.
2. Think About What is Noble Across Cultures
Nobility is universal, and each culture has its own ways of expressing what is noble—whether it’s a strong sense of community, reverence for elders, or commitment to hospitality. By focusing on these admirable qualities, we can appreciate and honor what is “noble” in each culture we encounter. This form of thinking brings us closer to understanding the values that hold societies together and, in turn, strengthens our cultural intelligence.
Example: If you’re working in a multicultural team, observe how team members express respect or gratitude. You’ll often find this differs by culture, yet the intent behind these gestures is a noble common ground.
3. Think About What is Right Within Cultural Contexts
Cultural intelligence doesn’t mean applying a single moral standard across the board; it’s about recognizing what is “right” within each cultural context. It’s not our role to judge cultural practices but rather to understand their underlying values. Shifting your mindset to embrace cultural relativism—the idea that what’s “right” is culturally specific—enables you to interact more effectively and respectfully.
How to apply this: Instead of viewing a cultural difference as a barrier, think of it as an opportunity to learn a new perspective on life’s principles, whether in social interactions, work ethics, or rituals.
4. Think About What is Pure and Rooted in Tradition
There’s beauty in simplicity, and cultural traditions often reflect the pure essence of a group’s values and history. When we consider the purity of a culture’s roots, we gain insight into its unique ways of living, loving, and relating to the world. This type of thinking helps you approach cultural differences with curiosity and respect for traditions that may span centuries.
When learning about a new culture, explore its traditional arts, stories, or rituals. Understanding these pure expressions of culture deepens your respect and strengthens your CQ.
5. Think About What is Lovely in Every Culture
Every culture holds beauty in its people, landscapes, art, and ways of life. When we focus on the lovely aspects of different cultures, we open ourselves to appreciation rather than comparison. This shift enables us to approach new cultures with an open heart and see their beauty as complementary to our own.
Whether you’re visiting a new country or exploring a local cultural event, pause to notice and savor what is lovely and unique. When we focus on beauty, we foster deeper connections and create lasting positive impressions.
6. Think About What is Admirable in Cultural Practices
Admiration helps us to engage genuinely, appreciate fully, and avoid superficial judgments. Every culture has aspects that are admirable—qualities like resilience, generosity, or the emphasis on family. When we acknowledge these admirable traits, we practice humility and expand our cultural understanding by recognizing values that transcend our own experiences.
Try this exercise: Reflect on a cultural practice or belief you admire, even if it’s different from your own. Notice how this perspective shift brings a sense of respect and wonder to your intercultural interactions.
7. Think About What is Excellent in Cultural Diversity
The final way of thinking that enhances CQ is focusing on the excellence that diversity brings to the table. Think about how diverse perspectives enrich problem-solving, creativity, and collaboration. When we view cultural diversity as an asset, we position ourselves to learn, grow, and innovate in a world that requires global-mindedness.
Pro tip: Next time you’re in a diverse setting, seek out opinions and ideas from those with different backgrounds. This shift doesn’t just improve CQ; it broadens your horizons and builds invaluable relationships.
In a world that is increasingly interconnected, fostering cultural intelligence is key to meaningful engagement, personal growth, and professional success.
By adopting these seven ways of thinking, you’ll develop a mindset that not only respects but also celebrates diversity.
So let’s commit to becoming more culturally intelligent people, capable of moving beyond borders and embracing the richness of our shared world.
Dr. CK 💋